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In Memorial
John Trahey
John Trahey was a faithful member of the Nfld club of California.
He'd show up for the parties even though he was ailing.
He was know for his homemade mustard pickles, sweet demeanor &
knowledge of Newfoundland.
His mother passed away when he was a youngster & Mt Cashel
was his home until his sister finished rearing him. John lost his
only son when the boy was a teenager, his daughter Elizabeth was
his pride and joy as well. She will make John a grandpa soon.
Santa Monica was his home for 43 yrs, he told me he missed the
sea so much.
We all miss him terribly. Rest in peace John!
- Your fellow Newfoundlanders from the Nfld club.
John Trahey - A Tribute
17 July 2004
My first contact with John Trahey, after forty five years, was when
, on the 3rd February 2003, he sent me an mail enquring about my
book, A Sailors Life 1920-2001, B4its2L8. I didn't recognize the
name nor the Email address, however having replied to say that I
would welcome further contact, it wasn't more than a day later when
the phone rang.
A strong voice, with an undeniable Newfoundland accent , said,
"It's me John Trahey. Do you remember me? I was in charge of
the motor cutter when you were the Captain of 'Sioux'.
Well, there had been previous contacts regarding my book but none
as startling and fascinating as this one. Whereas I had to admit
that I didn't remember him as a member of the ships company, Imost
certainly recalled the efficient operation of our motor cutter.
This was the beginning of a new and cherished tiendship. I learned
first that he was not in Newfie but IIving in Santa Monica, California.
He had been there with his family for many years and had been the
Chief Engineer for as an Environmental Systems Management and Engineering
company until his retirement in 1993. Also, I learned that he had
been in declining health with a lung disease requiring him to be
on both medication and oxygen to assist his breathing.
I admired his unquenchable spirit and sense of humour so typical
of Newfoundianders. Always cheerful, he regated me with his stories
of going to Las Vegas to play his favourite 'craps'. I, in turn,
recalled our time in 'Sioux' - a very happy and efficient ship-
and spoke of my family as he did of his, always with love and respect.
We pledged to keep in touch with one another, and so over the
many months until today, I have phoned every couple of weeks to
see how he was getting along to give him an update on our activities
here in Sidney on Vancouver island. He too, would call to tell me
and my wife Helen of his latest turn of events. In recent viteeks
he told me of his last and final visit to Vegas, where in a fifteen
minute run he came away with a $1,000. This was a source of great
and enjoyment and satisfaction, he surmounting the great difficulties
of getting there and returning home.
After his last setback and rush to hospital, he, to the continuing
amazement of the medical profession, bounced back, as I could well
attest when he phoned to teft me.
Now, in spite of his courage and strength of will his dear daughter
Elizabeth informed me today that her Dad is home again and under
hospice care.
When the time comes, he will pass on into the loving arms of angels,
peacefully and without pain. Although we never met face to face,
we had formed a friendship bond that was warm, strong, enduring
and with abiding mutual respect. We were sailors in the same ship
and it meant everything to both of us.
Good night John, my friend. God speed you with his blessings.
Peter Chance
Commander RCN rtd
Commanding Offloor, 0MCS Sioux, 1987/88
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